4 Life Essentials, You Don’t Have to Miss Out, Whatsoever

Hani Ameri
5 min readMay 23, 2022
An Apple Above Books

Living without clarity in life can be painful.

If you don’t know what you want in life, it can be tough to move forward.

There is so much uncertainty.

This can lead to you becoming distracted.

Your focus keeps shifting, and you barely get any success.

And yet you do not truly feel fulfilled, successful, or happy.

What is Missing?

No matter what kind of life you have, no matter how comfortable you are, there’s just one thing missing.

We are often not sure exactly what we wish for in life.

Therefore, we chase more and more, but we do not feel better.

It is very frustrating, no doubt about it…

My goal was to become a successful person in my 20s, and I worked so hard to achieve this goal.

I lived with my parents in a poor village in the middle of Iraq, part of a family of nine, and I had some good friends with who I was very close, and my health was good.

Growing up, I lived in a relatively poor neighbourhood, and as a child, I thought that I had made it in some respects. I felt that I was very fortunate.

The problem is that I was not feeling any kind of joy or vibrancy in life.

Something was lacking.

Can you guess what it was?

Until recently, I was sometimes confused about what we all want once we can acquire basic sustenance and safety.

I had no idea that we all want just four things in life.

These are what I call The Four ESSENTIALS of Life.

To figure it out took years of studying, training, coaching, and a lot of struggle.

It is as simple as that. That is what you want.

I’m not sure if you realise this now, but that is all you need.

Let’s have a look at how it works.


Indeed, we all strive for vibrancy in our lives at different mental, emotional, physical, relational, and spiritual levels.

Hani Ameri

Trying to encourage you to go out there to make the shift toward a Growth Mindset. Review, Consume and Create. Cut the mustard for your success. Let’s connect!